Recovering for Idiots

Living Happy 101

hmmmm... just something i understand clearer now. know the phrase "to heal a broken heart, is to let it love again"? or smth lidat. its really really really really true. be it e love of friends, family or maybe a new crush. letting ur heart love again, truly unshackles e mind from the bondage of e hurt of a previous loss. allowing it to be free to think properly again.

of course, e 1st step is to have the courage to seek love. or at least accept the love from others instead of hiding in a cave of solitude. everything just gets bottled up & soon the pressure will mount inside and just explode. canning it all up sometimes works, but materials deteriorate. leaks occur and once again, e pain will start again.

with a clear mind, then only can we properly assess what actually happened. if it wasnt ur fault which caused the end of the relationship, so be it. it's e other party's loss. y blame urself if u didn do anything wrong aye?

once we've got a clear picture of wat happened, all that's left is to "forgive, and forget"

cheers & live happy ;)